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Prayer for Discernment
My Lord God, I have no idea where I am
going. I do not see the road ahead of me. I cannot know for certain where
it will end. Nor do I really know myself. And the fact that I think I am
following Your will does not mean that I am actually doing so. But I
believe that the desire to please You does in fact please You. And I hope
that I have that desire in all that I am doing. I hope that I will never
do anything apart from that desire. And I know that if I do this, You will
lead me by the right road. Though all may seem to be lost and in the
shadow of death, I will not fear, for You are ever with me, and You will
never leave me to face my perils alone.
~ Thomas Merton |
Vocations
The term vocation comes from the Latin word
vocare meaning "to call". Through our baptism, we are
each called by God to do something great for Him. It doesn't just mean
becoming a priest or religious (e.g. monk or nun), although God is
certainly still calling young men and women to this lifestyle commitment.
It could mean you are called to be a witness for Him in your secular job.
It could mean you are called to become a professional lay minister in His
Church. You could be called to marriage or to live a single life. Whatever
God is calling you to, He will equip you for it and it will be something
that most deeply meets your innermost passions and the world's greatest
needs.
How do I find my
vocation?
Finding your vocation isn't like choosing a
major or a job. You may not get a voice in the night like Samuel or get
knocked off a horse like St. Paul. Vocation comes from spending consistent
time with God in prayer and reflecting on how He has led you throughout
your life, what gifts He has given you, what motivates and energizes you,
how others see you, what calls you out of yourself to give to others.
Following are some suggestions to help you in this process:
Prayer:
We're talking deep, honest, sometimes gut-wrenching prayer! Ask God to
guide your desires and your paths as you seek to do His will for your
life. Take time to listen to how He may speak back to you, whether through
Scripture, nature, music, other people, or a way that is unique to you.
Remember that God knows your heart and He is the one who calls you first!
Reflect:
When do I feel most myself? Is there something someone has told me I would
be good at? What is my deepest desire? What is my greatest pain right now?
Do I have the gifts to do this thing I dream of? Is this a way that will
require me to grow? How will this path allow me to reach beyond myself to
serve others? What would I do if it didn't matter what others would think?
Does this way of life bring me deep peace and joy?
Start
a journal: Journaling is a great way to get in touch with your
heart and how God is speaking to you through various circumstances. Choose
a time or place that works best for you. You may want to use the above
questions as a guide throughout your journaling journey.
Find
a spiritual director: A spiritual director is someone you
trust who will "walk the path" with you. You may meet once a
month or more often. He/she will listen to you, may sometimes ask you
questions about your prayer and spiritual life, and help you discern the
movements of the Holy Spirit. You may want to share portions of your
journal with him/her when you get together. Your parish priest can be a
great resource for spiritual direction, but you may also want to ask a
qualified religious or lay person.
Move
out in faith: St. James says that "faith without works is
dead". If we believe God is calling us in a certain direction, we
need to take a step of faith and pursue what we believe is His guiding,
trusting that He can and will direct our paths.
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